It's 2011!!! Is it just me or does it seem like it wasn't too long ago we were all worrying about Y2K? Yes, time does seem to fly by but that may not be a bad thing after all. I recently came across this quote, "The bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot".
As we all age and the years ahead of us are less than those we've already lived, this really is good news! I'm in control and I decide what the quality of my life will be from this point going forward!
When we were raising our children and working full time the days seemed endless. I never gave much thought to the fact that some day our daughters would graduate from college and move away. And, retirement wasn't even a part of my vocabulary back then!
Year after year went by and then one day...bam! Both daughters graduated, worked, fell in love, married, started families and then retirement arrives. All the planning in the world doesn't really prepare you for this change in your life until it happens.
No matter what age you are when you retire, the quality of the rest of your life lies in your hands. Imagine that! No boss, spouse, significant other, best friend, no one controls what you do with the rest of your life. You chart your own course from this point forward! A little scary...perhaps but oh so exciting!
So where to start? Make a list of things that make you happy. Include the fun things you like to do. Then add those things you've never done before but always wanted to try. If you like taking pictures, check your local colleges or recreation centers for classes. Tap dancing or a little ballroom dancing? How about a book club, bridge club or wine tasting events?
Many communities offer classes in a variety of areas. Do an internet search on your local county offerings or check the local meet-up groups...www.meetup.com. You can even start your own if one isn't available.
Perhaps volunteering is right up your alley. Again, an internet search is a good place to start your search for the right volunteering opportunity. Check your local newspaper and library, too. They often post community news and events. You might find something that interests you there, too.
The possibilities are endless. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Stay active. Be involved. This is the secret to a quality life in retirement. You say nothing interests you? Then be bold and try something completely different; you just might be surprised!
Happy New Year!!! 2011 will be my best year yet! I hope it is yours, too!